7th June 2017
10th June 2017


Intimacy under the covers

Talk about dating manenoz…and this is one thing I have discovered in my many years of existence… Date yourself all means do not wait for another human being to validate you..treat thyself to what you love best, go buy yourself some fancy lunch if single or even if attached to nobody or somebody get thyself some fancy is that warm feeling that you have on some nice lace white underwear bought by you for you as you go on your usual day to day activities that says, I love myself first ..Go to the Ole Sereni and watch the sun set in the bar that faces the national park all by yourself and watch as the animals come to the watering hole, gents get some hot boxers even if you will undress before nobody tonight.

Love thyself first!

And now finally, ‘What is on its way out in Latest Trends in Dating and Romance?’ As the world becomes more of a melting pot, biases and stereotypes towards couples that would have otherwise been considered odd in past years are coming to an end. As mentioned in a previous blog post; interracial, intertribal, intereligious, intergenerational couples are falling in love and enjoying life together and confidently displaying their love in public. This is just awesome as it is in our human diversity that our strength lies.

As more and more people become economically, socially and emotionally empowered and not financially, socially and emotionally dependent on relationships, toxic and abusive relationships that were tolerated in the past are now disappearing and are on their way out. More and more people are now deciding to settle for nothing less than loving and compassionate relationships and are comfortable being alone if toxic relationships are the only options available to them at the moment.

Sadly, the long and well thought out snail mail love letter of yesteryear is also on its way out as people embrace phone calls, instant text messages and social media interaction. Care to share any observations and trends that you have noted on their way out in the dating and romance scene?

© Kwambie Nyambane, Founder and Lead Writer
Wacha niKwambie – wellness and inspirational blog
Disclaimer: The above thoughts are just personal observations made by Kwambie, a
conclusive study by social scientists would give an accurate picture of the dating and
romance scene on the ground.
#Latest trends on dating and romance in 2017

Kwambie Nyambane
Kwambie Nyambane
Kwambie Nyambane is a Sales Force Effectiveness Manager in a leading bank in Kenya 'by day', a passionate inspirational blogger 'by night'; and a wellness enthusiast championing healthy lifestyle choices. The founder and lead writer of this blog is a Bsc. Food Science and Post -Harvest Technology graduate of the Jomo Kenyatta University of Agriculture and Technology, Kenya, holds an MBA in Marketing from the University of Nairobi and is currently pursuing a PhD in Business Administration from the University of Nairobi. Kwambie is a member of Bloggers Association of Kenya. She believes in taking life with a big spoon, seeing the cup always as half full, and enjoying the scenery in this journey called life. Kwambie is daughter to Lilly Moraa and James Nyambane, mother to one beloved son nicknamed "The Champ"; sister to Marci and beloved auntie to the A & Z girls. She and her family make Nairobi City, Kenya their home. This blog is dedicated to her parents Moraa and Nyambane for their awesome inspiration in her formative years, for being her pillar of strength through life, her siblings Marci and Joash, and to her son "The Champ" and her nieces who represent the generation that came after her. May the nuggets contained in this blog serve many generations, the world over to come.

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