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What makes us Beautiful – On Men & inner Beauty

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22nd October 2019
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From my research the pressure for men to be physically attractive is not as intense as women and what we find most appealing in men is their innate characteristics that is their personality and truth be told their earning power that is their financial muscle this overtakes by far good looks and well chiselled bodies. Typically, many women would choose a man based on good looks alone for a fling but not for a long term relationship.

A sense of humor that is a man who can make us laugh comes as one of the top traits of highly attractive men.

Kindness, good deeds, loving and empathetic have also been termed as traits in desirable men.

Older men may be found more desirable over younger men because of financial muscle that they have developed and grown over time.

A gentleman. Chivalrous traits e.g. opening doors for women, letting a woman go in first, buying flowers and chocolate, footing the bill for a woman that you are dating.

Other traits in highly desirable men include;
Financially secure.
Intelligence.
Confidence.
A man who has purpose, is driven and is motivated.
Honesty and trustworthiness also rank highly in traits of highly attractive men.
A man who supports his woman to be the best woman that she can be is also considered highly attractive.
A man who takes care of his personal grooming and looks well put together is also appealing.
Yet other traits considered in “beautiful” men;
Responsible.
Spontaneous and adventurous.
Authenticity that is keeping it real.
Maturity.
Emotional Stability.
Masculinity and
Courageousness.

Can you think of other inner traits of highly attractive men?

This discussion is by no means exhaustive as sometimes even what is quirky about a man makes him highly attractive and indeed every gander has his goose. So to my girl friends no judging other girl friends’ men on a lighter note.

What is found totally repulsive in men is abusers whether emotional, physical or sexual abusers.

“Wacha niKwambie”
October 2019 – R.E.N.E.W.A.L of body, mind and soul
What makes us beautiful

© Kwambie Nyambane
October 2019

Kwambie Nyambane
Kwambie Nyambane
Kwambie Nyambane is a Sales Force Effectiveness Manager in a leading bank in Kenya ‘by ', a passionate inspirational blogger 'by night'; and a wellness enthusiast championing healthy lifestyle choices. The founder and lead writer of this blog is a Bsc. Food Science and Post -Harvest Technology graduate of the Jomo Kenyatta University of Agriculture and Technology, Kenya, holds an MBA in Marketing from the University of Nairobi and is currently pursuing a PhD in Business Administration from the University of Nairobi. Kwambie is a member of Bloggers Association of Kenya. She believes in taking life with a big spoon, seeing the cup always as half full, and enjoying the scenery in this journey called life. Kwambie is mother to one beloved son nicknamed "The Champ";, sister to Marci and beloved auntie to the A & Z girls. She and her family make Nairobi City, Kenya their home. This blog is dedicated to her parents Moraa and Nyambane for their awesome inspiration in her formative years, for being her pillar of strength through life, her siblings Marci and Joash, and to her son "The Champ" and her nieces who represent the generation that came after her. May the nuggets contained in this blog serve many generations, the world over to come.

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